I have aimed a number of articles in this site at singles who want to learn about the methods that I used. Having a set of well proven methods defined means that you can easily do enough practice to be ready to seduce any women you want in a few months.

Being a great seducer means using the appropriate technique to maximize the success rate and able to bypass subconscious defenses and barriers built into women's mind in order to "protect" herself from men who try to "pick them up"

• you need to know how to overcome woman's rejection
• increase a woman's interest
• gain immediate respect
• get women's phone number without asking for it
• try to avoid tragic mistake nearly all men make when they first meet a women

I have included all the basics on equipment and some more advanced techniques on how to pick up girls on this site so click around and enjoy!

Here's a little intro to pick up women techniques :

Just let her start all her sales pitch and later shows that you are interested in knowing more by asking sensible question. After that, try to end the conversation by pretending you are in hurry. Then tell her you are interested in more details and request for a business card and contact her later.

Your next step is to call her again arranging where to meet for lunch or dinner. I must admit that this is a sneaky way but we need to grab hold of all opportunity that comes our way to meet and attract beautiful women.

Have a look at the links at the bottom if you want to know more about how to use different types of seduction techniques to pick up girls.

How To Ask A Girl Out On Date

You met her, you talked to her, you got her number and, so far, everything is going great. But now comes that awkward point, …

How To Ask A Girl Out For Date

If it is a girl you are really interested in your mind might be filled with doubts and insecurities :

What if she says no ?

Am I trying to move too fast ?

Maybe she thought we were just friends and she will be offended if I ask.

All of these fears, although natural and common, are dumb. If you want a date with this girl you have the right to ask her out. Don't allow your life to be ruled by doubt and insecurity.

So what are the best ways to ask a girl out ?

There are several cheesy techniques you can use to lower your chances of rejection (such as making a bet with a girl and the loser has to make them dinner) but these kinds of games are unnecessary. If you are straightforward, and don't beat around the bush about what you want, a girl will respect and admire your confidence.

Optimally, you would ask her in a face-to-face setting. However, if that is not possible, either because the opportunity won't present itself or because you aren't confident enough, your best alternative would be over the phone.

Avoid, at all costs, asking through email or any other written medium (Instant Messenger, a note, etc.). Not only do these methods scream "CHICKEN!" they also leave behind a paper trail that may or may not come back to haunt you.

One way to avoid looking like an idiot is to have something in mind to say for these three possible reactions to your question so you won't be caught off guard :

If she says "yes"

Have a plan in mind; know your schedule and have an idea to suggest.

If she says "no"

Don't act shocked or offended. Just be like, "Alright." Then carry on the conversation as if you never asked. Be friendly and polite. Too often guys take a "no" personally and get ticked off. Girls don't admire or respect a negative reaction. The fact that you were able to brush off her rejection so easily may actually raise her interest.

If she says "some other time"

Have a plan B in case she is busy. If she still acts like she has too much to do it's probably because she's not interested and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Accept it as a rejection and move on.

Of course, you go into it expecting her to say "yes" but it's, as with most things in life, it's important to be prepared for the worst. 

Tips on how to ask a girl out

The real key to getting women to say "yes" when you ask for the date IS TO MAKE SURE THAT THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO YOU.

If a woman is attracted to you then why wouldn't she want to go out on a date with you ? It makes sense but most guys don't think of it that way... they miss the point and focus on "how to ask" rather than focusing on raising her attraction. 

Personally, I tried some techniques mentioned in How to Ask Girl Out report. It works well for me. Give it a try.

How to Give Woman What They Want

That's the question isn't it ?

What are women looking for in a man ? You've heard some of the most common ideas : 

• Tall

• Dark

• Handsome

• Rich

• Etc

Luckily for you and I, this isn't necessarily what they are looking for at all. If it were, only about 1% of the male population would be successful with women since only about that many men fit that "ideal" description.

Here's the truth : 

A woman wants a man that can make her feel like a million bucks.

Think about it for a second.

This is true because women are much more motivated by their feelings than men who, on the other hand, tend to be much more logical and process oriented.

If you can consistently impress a woman with overwhelmingly positive feelings things like your appearance, financial situation, and height just won't seem to matter to her anymore.

How do you instill these positive feelings I speak of ?

Well, that is the trick isn't it ?

There are 3 things that come into play :

1. How you present yourself

2. What you say

3. Her situation

Now, you can't really control her situation so let's focus on the first two; how you present yourself and what you say.

There are many powerful and effective techniques and strategies that you can employ that will raise her interest and overwhelm her with positive feelings. I don't have nearly enough room in this report to go into all of them so for now I will address the bare bones basics.

How you present yourself

Present yourself as a man. Women want men. Don't allow popular culture to strip you of your masculinity. Women are seeking the ideal man, who is confident, self sufficient, respectable, etc. They do not want someone who is insecure, desperate, and intimidated.

Curiously, the latter is the exact image that most men portray to women !

Nothing is less attractive to women than desperate, unconfident men.

Typically, when a man approaches a woman he becomes nervous, insecure, and unconfident portraying himself as the exact opposite of what women wants. This is due to a lack of understanding and can be easily remedied with the right knowledge. With the right knowledge you will feel competent and in control. This will be evident to the woman and she will be attracted to this unmistakable air confidence that you exude.

Desperation and neediness is the Achilles Heel of otherwise successful men. Women can sense a needy man without even having to talk to him. Learn how to kill the feeling of neediness that you are, without realizing it, putting off and your success rate with girls will literally double (if not triple).

I have coached many men who were considered to be attractive and well off. They would have been extremely successful with women their only problem was that they were, unknowingly, communicating to women that they were desperate and that they really wanted to get with her.

Women are repelled by desperation.

When you act desperate the woman instinctively pulls away. It's all part of the game right ? You pursue, she chases ?

How about no ? How about you stop chasing and she won't pull away. In fact, learn to play your cards right, and you can totally switch roles with her. You can have her chasing you… but I save those secrets for my members

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What Woman Want From Man

We (men) tend to focus too much on words and when we talk to women. Remember what I said earlier? Women base things on feelings and men base things on logic.

You need to start thinking of your words as nothing more than a tool to make a woman feel a certain way. When you are talking don't focus on the conversation. Instead, focus on what effect the conversation is having on her.

Is what you are talking about making her feel good ? Is what you are saying increasing her interest in you? Is what you are discussing inducing positive, happy feelings for here ?

I hope so because she will associate whatever she is feeling with, guess whom? That's right, you.

Here are some guidelines for conversation that will keep her feeling good :

Don't discuss negative things, which would arouse negative emotions

Keep her talking about herself (everyone likes to talk about themselves)

Use her name (everyone likes to hear their name)

Do NOT compliment her too much (remember what I said about desperation? Compliments can work against you very easily)

Don't be afraid to disagree (nobody respects a yes man, show her you have some opinions and a backbone every now and then)

Don't seem too interested (which would be a sign of desperation)

So, we have established that a woman wants a confident man who isn't desperate. A man who is confident and not desperate is perceived as 

• Valuable

• A provider

• In demand

• Competent

• To sum it up... attractive

The very things that will make her feel impressed by your presence. Are you noticing the importance of these feelings yet ?

For now, you can focus on mastering these basic principles I have outlined in this report. After that, if you really want to learn how to be successful with women and be in control of your love life you should strongly consider joining my member's area where I reveal the really cool stuff.

Successful first dates tips

1. Arrive on time
   Not too early, not too late, right on time. This indicates to her that you have your stuff together.
   
2. Be polite
   Be polite to her and everyone else you encounter (waiters, movie attendants, etc.). No one likes or appreciates a jerk.
   
3. Relax
   If you sense that you are getting nervous take a few deep breaths and remind yourself that you are the man and that you are deciding whether or not this girl is worthy of your time. It is important that you concentrate on just having fun. This girl likes you or she wouldn't be with you right now.
   
4. Tip well
   A sign of class. Never, ever skimp on a tip. Tip at the very least 15%.
   
5. Be decisive
   Have a plan. You absolutely MUST avoid, at all costs, ever saying, "I don't know what do you want to do?" Don't second-guess yourself, make excuses or apologize every time you make a small mistake.
   
6. Shut-up
   Try to keep the conversation focused on her. She should do about 70% of all the talking. It is a well known fact that most people enjoy talking about themselves and dislike hearing someone else talk about themselves too much. You may be tempted, if the conversation starts to run out, to tell her all about your family, your pet dog, etc. but you MUST restrain yourself.
   
7. End on a good note
   Say something funny and then get out of there. Don't wait for the date to become boring. If you sense that things are winding down it is better to end while everyone is in a good mood than to risk waiting until she is tired, bored and annoyed.
   
8. Don't be afraid to disagree
   Don't be afraid to say the word "no" or "I disagree" on a date. Women like to know that you have a backbone and will NOT like you more if you are a "yes man" (a.k.a. "doormat")
   
9. Don't act needy
   Very few things will drive a woman away faster. You don't have to be right by her side the whole night and don't be afraid of talking to other people. Also, don't act possessive if she decides to wander away and talk to someone else.
   
10. Be mindful of non-verbal communication
    Don't get tense because this is a big indicator of a lack of confidence. Stand up straight, articulate, look her (and everyone else) in the eye. Women don't like to think that their man is easily scared and intimidated. 

Learn more successful dating tips from Instant Attraction Program.