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Hi Olalere,

In this issue:

o "3 Steps To Getting ANY Woman You Want"
o  How To Have 'Rockstar' Status In ANY Social Situation
o  Your Comments, Feedback

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o "3 Steps To Getting ANY Woman You Want"

Your success with younger women is not dependent on how old
you are, or how large the gap is. The approach you use for a
woman your age will also work for someone younger--with a few
minor tweaks.

It really comes down to three things:

1. The image you present to the world.
2. The beliefs/thoughts you have running around in your head,
  your mindset.
3. Your selection criteria (ie how you select who you're going
  to approach)

Those are the same three things you'd focus on if there weren't
any age gap. Only the variables within each group change a
little.

Women are women; the psychology of a woman doesn't change with
age. Only her focus does. 

1. Your Image

When I talk about your image, I don't mean the way you dress
(though that is an element of it). The image we're concerned
with is the one that she forms based on your external appearance,
your way of moving through the world, how you carry yourself,
what you say, how you interact with others, etc.

You want to be in total control of the kind of person she
thinks you are. Women don't just go for what's on the surface.

She's asking herself "what kind of person is he on the inside?"

The answer that you should have ready for her should be
something that overpowers any resistance to your age, looks,
height, weight, or anything else that is outside her normal
"type."

Women go for men who have what she wants.

That's really what it boils down to: Do you have what she
wants?

Sure, some of them want you to be Brad Pitt (who is over 40,
by the way. But, he's perceived as youthful because he's
presented that way). But, they'll gladly put aside good looks
and age if you have everything else she's been looking for.

With age comes many benefits. Experience, security,
understanding, and social status are all byproducts of
getting older.

If you want to attract younger women, forget about the age
difference and focus on the benefits that come from being
older. But your actions must speak louder than words.

You can't just talk about being more experienced and mature
than men her age. It has to be seen to be believed.

If you have to tell her, then you're not doing it right.

You have to start asking yourself, "What are the qualities
that make me attractive, despite my age?" And, honestly, if
I were you, I'd even drop that last part about your age.

Just ask yourself, why would anyone, regardless of how old
she is, want to be dating you?

I can promise you this: if you have attractive qualities
that make you desirable to women in general, then you
definitely have qualities that younger women will also find
attractive.

While the mindset of a woman does change as she gets older,
they're all still attracted to the fundamentals. Demonstrate
to everyone around you that you're the man they either want
to be, or the man they want to be with.

Up to a certain point, you want to present yourself as
youthfully masculine. Don't get an earring and dye your
hair blonde. Just take care of your body; eat right and
exercise.

Display healthiness, and you'll be associated with youthfulness.
Wear clothes that look good, and make you seem like you've
opened up a copy of GQ Magazine in the past year.

You should be doing that no matter how old you are, but if
you want to seem especially younger, you shouldn't be the
kind of guy who looks like he needs to relax at home after
a hard day of work.

Engage in strenuous physical activity. Hit the gym, go hiking
or ride a bike. Take dance classes. If you don't feel old,
you won't look old. Besides, younger women don't go for the
stay-at-home types. They're more likely to go for you if
you're bursting with energy.             

If you're clean-shaven or have a beard or a mustache, try
trading it in for the "haven't shaved in two days" stubble.

Studies have shown that women find this look attractive.

Again, it connotes a young, yet maturing appearance. It also
demonstrates a little rebelliousness, especially in older men.

Remember, it's all in service to the image she'll make up
in her head. In there, you need to seem youthful, energetic,
strong, experience, able to take care of her and satisfy
her. If you can conjure and cultivate the portrait of a
capable man, the age difference will have little meaning.

(This also applies to Asian women):

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2. Your Mindset

What you project as your image has its roots in what you're
thinking right now. Who do you believe yourself to be?
What do you feel are the boundaries of your capabilities?

Let me ask you this: right now, do you feel like you can
easily pick up a desirable 25 year old? Do you feel that
you're at a disadvantage because of your age?           

Over the years, I've heard every excuse in the book, and I
can tell you that there are almost as many 25 year old
guys who don't think they can get a 25 year old girl, as
there are 45 year olds who think the same way.

It's not your age; it's your beliefs about your age that
hold you back. As I pointed out earlier, getting older has
its benefits.

But what if you were to truly believe that your age isn't
something to hide? What if you were proud of how old you
are?

Remember: It's not your age that's the issue; it's HERS
that might be the issue.               

What if she's too inexperienced and too naive?

You're the right age, but she has to prove to you that
she's wise beyond her years. Or, at the very least, willing
to learn from you.

For some guys, believing this will take some work. Changing
beliefs isn't the easiest thing in the world, especially
if there are a whole bunch of other beliefs tangled up in
them.

With patience and determination, however, you can start
to believe that you have an advantage over younger men.             

If you believe in yourself, possibilities open up.

The major factor here is confidence and self-assuredness.
I mean this in several ways. Not only does it mean that
you've got self-esteem and believe in your own self-worth,
but you're also fearless and will go after whatever it
is that you want.

That means you don't think twice about approaching a 20 or
30-something woman. Project the sense that a man of your
stature and confidence has gotten with younger women
before; this should look easy.             

You must exude the feeling that you've done this before,
and being with a younger woman is nothing out of the
ordinary. If you can truly grasp that and make it part of
your belief system, then you will project it to her.

It will make it that much easier for her to forget about
the age difference.

Being with a younger woman has to seem par for the course,
but you still want her to feel special. You're not going
after her because you need a younger woman. 

You're interested in her because she seems interesting as
a person. You just don't want her to feel that her age is
a big deal to you.

This kind of confidence comes from experience. It comes
from making a concerted effort to be comfortable in that
kind of situation.

If you're comfortable with women around your age, start
frequenting places with a slightly younger age bracket (eg
coffee shops), and start interacting slightly outside of
your comfort zone.

Work your way slowly, over the course of a few months, to
the age group you want.             

If you're 40, don't jump into a 20 year old's world without
experiencing some 30 year old and mid-late 20s women first.

Your mind and nervous system prefers gradual change, and

it's best to approach it that way if you want to acquire a
new set of permanent beliefs. 

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3. Your Selection Criteria

I have a 55 year old friend of mine who lives in India.
Every Monday, he goes to an American karaoke bar and sings
a few tunes. He doesn't have the best voice in the world, but
it is certainly a powerful one.

After his first number, he buys a handful of people around
him a round of drinks. Over the course of a few weeks from
when he started, he's become the guy that everybody knows.

Even in India, a place far more conservative than our United
States (and the rest of the western world), he's been able
to pick up several women under thirty at that bar.

That's because he embodies confidence and makes his
presence felt. As a result, he has social status. At that bar,
he's near the top of the pecking order.             

It's a mindset that he has cultivated, and one that is
accurately sent out as his image. The two cannot be
separated.

No matter who you select, she's looking for some type of
demonstration of the pecking order. You're expected to be
at the top because you're older. Those at the top take
care of the ones underneath him.

Don't mistake this to mean you pay for everything.

It's not like you have to pay for her college tuition.

Just a demonstration is all that's required. It shouldn't
look like a demonstration, either.

My friend has found a place that, for him, works well.
He's able to demonstrate his authority and youthfulness
among all age groups.

I think you'll benefit in finding the same.

Some bars, coffee shops, and even something like night
classes, would have a varied age group.

Of course, it isn't necessary to go "somewhere."

If you're confident in yourself, you'll be able find
women anywhere. But, for the sake of practice, it's a
good idea to find place where you can become a regular
and befriend a few people (yes, even men) younger than
you are.

One more thing to consider is that there are some women
who are more likely to disregard the age gap than others.

In my experience, the more intelligent the woman, the more
likely mature the man she dates. It's not an inalterable
rule, obviously, but it's a good starting point to find
receptive girls. Also, the more "alternative" she is
(in the way she dresses and what she believes in), the
more likely she'll overlook the age difference.

A vegetarian, for example, has an alternative mindset.

Ask yourself, "Why am I seeking out a younger woman?" I
know, the real answer is because you and I both want a
smoking hot chick in our beds so we can say, "I've still
got it."

Besides that, find some other answers for yourself.

What are you looking for?

Come up with some good answers that ring true for you,
and seek those types of women out. If you have a clearer
goal, it's easier to attain.

It took me a long time to figure out how to date & attract
younger women... and how to make them feel that powerful
physical and emotional response called ATTRACTION...

I can't tell you how much I wish I could have known what
I teach when I was younger. It's taken me literally YEARS
to put all the pieces together, and I invite you to take
advantage of the time, effort, energy, and money I've
invested to discover, refine, and organize all of the step-by-
step techniques I've put together here:

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It will give you a SOLID foundation for thinking and
behaving like a guy who NATURALLY attracts women.

You know, there's nothing quite as exciting as seeing
a beautiful woman that you'd like to meet (esp the super hot
9s and 10s), then approaching her, starting a conversation,
and walking away with her number (or walking away with HER).

Question: Have you ever had an exotic dancer as a girlfriend?
I have... and I'm telling you, the feeling's OUT OF THIS
WORLD (it's something you must try AT LEAST once in your
lifetime)!

Seducing and having a stripper/dancer (even if you
have no money and looks) as a girlfriend is every man's
fantasy. These women are experienced; EXTREMELY in tune
with their se.xuality and most important of all... they know
how to PLEASURE their man!

If you're at all curious of how certain guys end up DATING
and sleeping with these women, check this out (you'll
be kicking yourself wondering "why didn't I think of
that??!"):

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I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

Simon H

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o  How To Have 'Rockstar' Status In ANY Social Situation

Have you ever wished you could see through everyone's games
and manipulations so that YOU could control the conversation
or the interaction instead of being "played"? 

This program will give you a blueprint for handling anyone who
tries to manipulate you, including WHAT to say and HOW to say
it so that you're NEVER taken advantage of again.

You'll also learn how GENUINE and REAL connections are formed
between people, and how you can turn all your socializing
into WIN-WIN situations. You can check it out and get yours
here:

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o  Getting The Woman You Want By Being R.E.A.L

Do you ever feel like a woman can see right through you and the
methods you use to try to get her interested?

And that's how using routines and lines can actually cripple
your success with women, as it makes you look unoriginial,
cloned, instead of being UNIQUE. If you're sick and tired of
fake lines & fake attitudes and you want to know how to att.ract
women and build DEEP RAPPORT by just being YOURSELF, instead
of trying to be someone you're not, or use other people's words,
you'll be BLOWN AWAY by the 12+ hours of R.E.A.L. Game DVDs here:

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o  Your Questions, Comments, Feedback

I'd like to hear from you!

PS - If you have any suggestions on what you'd like to know &
learn more off in our future newsletter issues, or if you'd
like to send share me a success story, question, or comment,
just write them here:

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Don't forget to include in your initials and do tell me where
you're from!

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Hi Friends,

My name is Marni.

I'm the founder of the Wing Girl Secrets: one of the world's
first and only dating advice services run by women for men.

Most dating and pick up sites are created by men - but we
think that no one can give you insights on the female mind
like another woman.

I believe in order to truly be successful with women you must
first understand women and what it is that they want from men.

Our job as Wing Girls is NOT to change you.

It is to help you become the BEST version of yourself by
becoming informed and experienced. 

Information and experience are the keys to self-assurance and
comfort.  And Self-Assurance and Comfort are what will make
you a man that understands women.

A man that can approach and engage any women without fear of
rejection. A man that women will want!

So no more wasting time! We want to start giving you the
information you need right away to get started.

The promise that I need from you is the promise of ACTION. 

I am going to provide you with powerful information that will
guarantee success with women BUT none of this information
will work unless it is put to practice.

Watching 18 hours of PUA techniques is not going to get you
women. Absorbing the information and USING it in your every
day life will.

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So What Does A Woman Want??!!
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Simple.

Someone Who Is:

Self Assured, Calm, Collected, Comfortable and Direct

This man may come in different packages and versions BUT the
foundation is always the same. 

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Self Assured
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This is man who is confident and believes he is worthy of great
things.

He is not worried about rejection, never focuses on the "right
thing" to say and always goes after what the wants. Not in an
aggressive, jerky way.  But in a confident way. 

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Calm
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A calm man is one that can handle tension.  This means that if a
girl does not call him back he doesn't freak out. He doesn't
replay the interaction with the woman over and over and over
again to realize where he made mistakes. 

A calm man does not fall to pieces when confronted with a
difficult situation.  For example, when a woman throws out a
"shit-test".

A man who panics and gets emotional when faced with a shit test
is not properly handling tension. Therefore he is failing as
a man in a woman's eyes.

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Collected
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Collected means, having your act together.  You are not overly
needy. You don't write 5 paragraph long intro emails and you
do not feel the need to instantly respond to texts.

You have a life. You have boundaries and you know what you want.

Once you have this belief in place and stick to it that
energy will come across to women.

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Comfortable
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Have you ever been around someone that you know is comfortable
in his or her own skin? It's intimidating right?  It makes
you more uncomfortable and it makes you want do things for
that person or with that person.

You feel this way because you want to become this way. 

Everyone wants to be comfortable. 

Especially women.

If women are with a man who exudes comfort, then they will
feel secure, safe and attracted.
 
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Direct
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This is the most important one.

Have you ever asked a woman what you are doing this weekend?

This question has multiple answers.

One could be: "I am going out with 5 other men who are not you."

Instead of making the above statement, try being more direct
by saying "I want to take you out this weekend." This statement
is clear, honest and leaves no room for interpretation.

Being direct and saying what you want is THE MOST ATTRACTIVE
thing you can do with women.

Now that I have gone through everything that women want, I
want to also tell you what women do not want.

Women Do Not Want A Man Who:

1.    Wants to be mothered
2.    Is needy and dependent
3.    Has no back bone and can be walked all over
4.    Is not positive
5.    Cannot handle tension
6.    Is aggressive and abrasive
7.    Doesn't know how to listen
8.    Can't understand women
9.    Is not proactive
10.    Has no life outside of the women he dates

... and get this: Once you understand how and why women
are attracted to certain types of men, and how the dating
'game' works, you will see things in a whole NEW way.

Emotions of attraction can be 'sparked' in ANY woman...
whether it's a friend, a work colleague, your next door
neighbour, etc it doesn't really matter.

All you need is just to learn the right HOW to do it information
and you'll see how EASY it can be done. Here is your personal
download link to uncover it all:

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I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Sis You Never Had,